The Support You Resist Might Be What You Need Most

Have you ever felt that you have to handle everything alone — to “fix” yourself before being worthy of showing up again?

Many of us believe that we must earn connection or succeed first before anyone is allowed to believe in us.

But here is a question worth asking:

What if the strength you’re waiting for only grows once you show up for yourself and others?

When you start showing up for others — offering support, attention, and encouragement without waiting to be perfect first — people begin reflecting that same energy back to you.

Some argue that encouragement should follow achievement.
But the truth is:

Energy invested in someone’s growth is never wasted — it always comes back.

In a world where many feel unseen, overwhelmed, or unsure of their next step, your presence and belief in someone might be the spark that changes everything — for them and for you.

So today, take a moment to look around.

Who could use a word of encouragement?
Who needs to be reminded that they are capable — even if they can’t see it yet?

Don’t underestimate the power of belief, connection, and community.
They are not the rewards of success — they are the engines that make success possible.

And as others invest that belief in you, pass it forward.
You never know whose life you’ll change — or how it might change your own.