
I recently came across a quote from Theodore Roosevelt, and it felt like the appropriate way to begin this journey.
In today’s world, I see two great obstacles standing in the way of our growth into authentic individuals.
The first is comfort — and the entitlement that often comes with it.
Detached from the struggles and sacrifices of those who came before us, we often take for granted the conditions they fought to secure.
Growing up in Western Europe, I was taught that certain things were “human rights” — material comfort, economic stability, social equality.
But living and studying in East Asia reminded me that these are not guarantees of life; they are ideals that exist only where responsibility, action, and effort sustain them.
Life owes us nothing — not freedom, safety, justice, or prosperity.
They must be earned, and even then, chance or misfortune may take them away.
Yet rather than seeing this as discouraging, I see it as liberating.
Meaning is not something given to us; it is something we create by facing the challenges life places before us.
It is precisely the fragility and uncertainty of life that give it meaning.
Recognizing that each moment could be our last should not discourage us — it should propel us to act and to live courageously.
Every decision, every step forward, becomes a deliberate choice between strength and avoidance, between creation and distraction.
The second obstacle lies in our fear of judgment — our tendency to measure ourselves through the eyes of others.
After meeting people from many different social and cultural backgrounds, I have come to see that strength and weakness, courage and cowardice, exist in every layer of society.
Those who pursue meaningful goals tend to support and uplift others walking similar paths.
Those who have not yet found the courage to follow their own calling — who remain bound by comfort or expectation — are often the first to criticize or discourage.
This realization can once again liberate us.
It reminds us that the right people will recognize and stand by us — and that the rest need not define our path.
In the end, what matters is not perfection, but the courage to enter the arena — to face life’s challenges with open eyes and a steady heart.
Thank you for reading.
I hope this reflection encourages you to listen to that quiet voice within — and to take your own courageous step forward.

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